I am a male and 34 years old age. Before 8 years ago I had a penis infection under the foreskin.Then it entered to the body by semen and after a week I had serious infection, top of penis,very painful lower back, painful urinal tube and bladder also (swollen lymph nodes/fever/body acidic (4.5-5 pH urine, saliva) I had never, sexual intercourse at all before that (except masturbating). But I tested every STDs. Urine culture, ultra sound scan are negative. My urine was dirty yellowed and acidity level is very high( 4.0 - 4.5 pH). I took medical advice and they gave me various of Antibiotics.Doctors said me no reasons to afraid. Then I got married. After that I faced a serious problem. After two three moths of my marriage my wife said that her menstrual cycle was stopped. But it was not a conceiving. After that her menstrual was disordered (once for 3-4 moths). And she said that her lower back was very painful, urine acidity level is very high (She showed symptoms that I have).(Later we had to divorce of this case) Now I have to get married. I am in deep problem. Still I am suffering from *very dirty, yellowed urine *Acidity levels are very high (Urine, Semen, Saliva) *Pain of bladder, lower back side and ureters *Vein system of the body get swollen, and dark bluish(after this incident) *Depression I want to know 1.Is this a viral/bacteria/fungal infection? if it is a virus can a virus originate by my own body? 2.If it entered by semen are there tests to identify that germ clearly? what are those? (already I have tested for every other STDs) and now is it a sexual transmitted disease? How can I know it clearly? could it be transmitted to my wife by semen? (My early wife showed some symptoms) 3.Acidity level of urine and other liquids of body are very high what are the reason for that and Is this a chronic situation? 4.Will I be able to get married and have a normal life and will this condition make infertility of me 5.Can I cure this? what should I do for that I am in deep problem!! please help me!